E.B., how the hell did you discover all this and put in into great prose. I've been in therapy for many years (no more) but your writing is even more valuable.

This came at the right time. I was sad because I was obsessing over someone who has zero feeling for me - again - and I was trying to figure why that is... this is it. Thank you!

I can't thank you enough for writing this. It really helped me a lot. Trying to get over my childhood traumas and letting go of them.

After reading this, it felt as if for the first time in my life the fog of how relationships work was lifted and thanks to you, now I understand that loving and understanding myself first is the key to successful relationships. Thanks, you have changed a big part of my life.

This piece is super powerful messaging I have been needing to hear at just the right time.

Wow, this gave me a really good insight into some future relationships I might end up in. Thanks E.B.

This is so helpful to me right now. I am in major doubting mode and was having a hard time sorting out if I was self sabotaging or needed deepening questions to rest my fears a ease. I will have needs conversation soon.

I love this article. Thank you so much for writing it. :)